What? This little number? Oh it's nothing, just a Freudian Slip;)

OK, am I wrong or is there nothing better than really good brain sex? Let me explain. Have you ever met someone that messed with you on every level mentally? They could make you think, make you laugh, more importantly keep you interested, intrigued, challenged? I'm personally thinking along the lines here of witty banter. The back and forth, and creative one ups-man-ship, the innuendo or the ever fun double entendre. Someone who is able to poke fun at themselves and you at the same time without taking it personal. My favorite part is that mischievous gleam in the eye and the sly smile right before the delivery. I do appreciate a good burn even when directed at me. I can take the hit when delivered by a pro, someone whom I have respect for, well then it's practically an honor to be the focus of their attention. Knowing that you are peaking their interest and inciting them to respond to you armed with their best efforts and material. It's a compliment really. Well, to me anyway.

why?

Because I love to push their buttons, to get a reaction, to figure them out. I love the mystery, the challenged, the puzzle. I love to see and understand what makes each and every different person tick in comparison to myself. That being said, there still has to be the initial connection. That spark of commonality on some level. That unspoken "ah ha!!" moment. Or sometimes it's as simple as just the right combination of time, bevies, and boredom.

so right now you're reading this and thinking, "man if you're playing the odds, you must get a fair share of dullards in there." My answer is yes, I've had total duds, and sometimes semi-scary/annoying stalkers (yikes) but on the upside I've found some individuals who have slightly and or significantly impacted and changed me. And all of those experiences shaped me.

but back to the Brain Sex. Simply put, sometimes really good Brain Sex, can be better in a lot of ways than the physical equivalent. Not that the physical isn't phenomenal;) Let's face it though, the body is gonna go for all of us at some point.